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 23:11 | 1/Aug/2006
Affairs of the Heart
The last I posted a blog on a married woman’s affair, the response I got came in a flood. The friend who I wrote about, read both the blog and the response and arrived last night for a heart-to-heart with me. We spent all night talking. I wrote about her erotic encounter with an ex-boyfriend and both she and I agreed that the film Unfaithful came c... more...
 20:25 | 24/Jul/2006
Anatomy of an Affair
Affairs are attractive but they take a toll on your relationship. I have a close friend who after six years of marriage, met an old friend in a mall and had coffee with him. They spoke to each other about old times and while they were never physically involved, they were attracted to each other. Now both were married but the spouses of both were in... more...
 22:08 | 18/Jul/2006
Prettiness helps
Pretty women, and men I suppose, rise faster on the corporate ladder. I have long believed that. Physical attractiveness helps your career along. Just found this article that I thought it would be great to share with my blogger pals. Here goes:We would like to think real-1ife workplaces are bastions of professionalism that reward employees based on... more...
 18:13 | 12/Jul/2006
Say it with your eyes
As long as I can remember, the looking game between men and women has fascinated me. There is so much that rides on this looking game. It is a game that holds an inexhaustible fascination for most of us and we love playing it.This looking game can range from the subtle to the overt. From gentle flirtation to lustful overture. My view is that it is ... more...
 19:07 | 11/Jul/2006
Flirting has changed
The old ploy of a guy making eyes at a woman furtively--that has changed. And how. Here's quite a revealing article I found in an American journal. It's not as brazen as this among teenagers in India. Or maybe it is. Comments?Meanwhile here's the article.Modern FlirtingGirls Find Old Ways Did Have Their CharmsBy Laura Sessions SteppIt's Saturday ni... more...
 01:01 | 2/Jul/2006
Women on top
Women on topI was a bit distraught reading this. I think men love to have women dress at work like this but resent it when the same woman whose sexy shape they lustfully ogle at, makes it up the corporate ladder.Here's what researcher Peter Glick found:AS PART of an experiment, researcher Peter Glick asked a woman to wear a sexy, low-cut blouse wit... more...
 00:15 | 2/Jul/2006
Why men die before women
Why do men die before women? Quite simple really. They find women too distracting and their attention diverts at times when it should not. The pictures illustrate that. Right? Men would say women and their cuvaceousness is too stirring. But would men have it any other way? more...
 00:13 | 2/Jul/2006
Shepherd vs Consultant
Shepherd vs ConsultantA shepherd was herding his flock in a remote pasture when suddenly a brand-new BMW advanced out of the dust cloud towards him. The driver, a young man in a Broni suit, Gucci shoes, Ray Ban sunglasses and YSL tie, leaned out the window and asked the shepherd, "If I tell you exactly how many sheep you have in your flock, will yo... more...
 00:09 | 2/Jul/2006
Why harass these women?
Among the most agonizing images in newspapers and magazines for me find young girls being presented in court after being arrested for prostitution. The girls have their face covered; the men in uniform stand beside them, leering and triumphant. The accompanying reports talk about how the cops busted a sex racket by laying siege and getting one or m... more...
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 Ash K | 18:18 | 20/Nov/2007
Friends: (488)  | City: Wonderland - Iland  | Interests: Books, Food, Movi...
Healthy Contradiction….
Believing in commitment more than love…Palpable feelings instead of diplomatic smiles…Liking grey over black-o-white….Enjoying silence over garrulous sessions… Listening to Heart more often than the mighty Head…Adjusting rather than whining and retaliating…Taking a step or two to introspect than going full steam…Choosing a silent prayer over mindle...  more...
 Sonia Singh | 12:43 | 19/Sep/2006
Friends: (27)  | Interests: travelling, music...
Too Tempting to Resist: ADULTERY
Adultery is something that we are all capable of but some of us have a greater willpower than others to resist such a temptation. Most people will accept, if they were being honest, that they occasionally feel an attraction towards someone other than their partner but only some of us will actually follow through and think with our body rather than ...  more...
 KANNAN KANNAN | 21:50 | 25/Aug/2007
Friends: (351)  | City: Coimbatore  | Interests: Life is beautiful...
HYDRABAD BLAST
PEOPLE OF INDIA, IT IS THE GOVT WHO NEEDS TO HELP THE PEOPLE. BUT IF YOU SEE THEY JUST KEEP WATCHING SUCH KILLINGS UNTIL SOMEBODY QUESTIONS. IN BETWEEN THE INNOCENT PEOPLE WOULD GET KILLED LIKE THESE. LET US ASK THE GOVT OF INDIA, WHY SUCH THINGS ARE HAPPENING. THE GOVT KNOWS WHAT IS HAPPENING IN AND AROUND INDIA. IF THEY SEND THE ARMY TO CLEAN ALL...  more...
 pankaj shah | 15:30 | 20/Aug/2006
Friends: (113)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: music,movies,spor...
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 Ashok Prasad | 16:41 | 19/Aug/2006
Friends: (2)  | City: Hyderabad  | Interests: Net, friends, mus...
Love
HiI just wanted to write something about Love.  Plz read and send ur views.  ThanksLove is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects...  more...
 Shiv Khatri | 18:26 | 25/Sep/2006
Friends: (219)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: Reading, meeting ...
Smile
One of the comman sites in Delhi is a small child on a crossing asking for a rupee or two, it really touches me and i wonder what could be the possible solution to this long lasting social problem in India. But i have never been able to think of a solution for this. Although i strongly feel that we should not promote this and fight out this evil, b...  more...
 Meenal Johari | 18:17 | 12/Mar/2007
Friends: (203)  | Interests: earning and shari...
Email To My Loving Wife
A man checked into a hotel. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an e-mail to his wife. However, he accidentally typed a wrong e-mail address, and without realizing his error, he sent the e-mail. Meanwhile....Somewhere in Houston, a widow had just returned from her husband's funeral.The widow decided to check her e-mail, expectin...  more...
 Dheeraj Khanna | 21:15 | 19/Aug/2007
Friends: (328)  | Interests: cricket, movies, ...
The Bourne Series...... download now!!
The Bourne Ultimatum has turn out to be huge this summer in Hollywood. So I thought, why not give a tribute to that great spy-master Robert Ludlum who created Bourne and made him a delicious character, an anti-thesis of James Bond.So I give you the The Bourne Trilogy. Now available for download.Go ahead, get ready for a thrilling ride.Downloand the...  more...
 mani sankar | 18:01 | 10/Aug/2006
Friends: (22)  | City: Madurai  | Interests: drawing, singing,...
A sole story
The old young days have passed out from the hands. the memories of those past days come in to our mind...what we have enjoyed and wat we have missed out. whenever we remeber it we use to say "we should have done it, we shouldnt have done it, we should have said our love, we shoculdnt have spoken like this" we miss wat we are talking at that present...  more...
 Reshma Thakkar | 20:33 | 1/Dec/2007
Friends: (1863)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: drawing,reading,s...
HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS
Happiness and success are two concepts intertwined with one another. These are two of the most important ingredients that would eventually define a person’s life. If one would think about it, happiness and success are two things that are relative to a person’s point of view since these are dependent on one’s ideologies. Happiness and success relate...  more...
 vishal singh | 15:34 | 25/Sep/2006
Friends: (2)  | City: Hyderabad  | Interests: friends.. n freek...
My Fav Songs...
" Tere Bin " http://www.bollyexpress.com/play/index.php?sid=8158 " Kya Mujhe Pyaar Hai " http://www.bollyexpress.com/play/index.php?sid=8237 " Pal Pal Har Pal " http://www.bollyexpress.com/play/index.php?sid=8048 " Jaane Kya " http://www.bollyexpress.com/play/index.php?sid=7292  more...
 subhas dutta | 22:08 | 14/Jan/2007
Friends: (49)  | City: Ranchi  | Interests: Reading,net surfi...
Yesterday and tomorrow...
There are two days about which nobody should ever worry, and these are yesterday and tomorrow. So, with only today to cope with, the burden becomes lighter for nobody ever stumbled under the burden of today. It is only when they add yesterdays and tomorrows to the load they`re carrying that it becomes unbearable. ---------------------------------...  more...
 av rao | 21:47 | 26/Apr/2007
Friends: (17)  | City: Hyderabad  | Interests: humor,parenting,b...
Be Focussed
YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE......... NO ONE CAN SUCCEED BY IMITATING YOU neither YOU CAN BY IMITATING OTHERS...LAGE REHO MUNNA BHAI.  more...
 Premraj Trip... | 16:37 | 1/Jul/2007
Friends: (48)  | City: Bhubaneshwar  | Interests: travelling to nat...
MY BELOVED
Evening is starting to fallThe stillness... making my hair crawlThe overwhelming signs..oh so familiar !I dread in apprehension...and fear...For again you are  arriving ! In all your grandeur !The same enveloping primordial stuffinessThe same resounding cries of desperationThat are your perennial companyGrowing by the momentsSwallowing everythingDe...  more...
 AdityaDas Menon | 15:57 | 5/Dec/2007
Friends: (1170)  | City: Cochin  | Interests: Romantic Yogi.....
" THE PRINCESS" ....Part One...........
"The Princess".......... Part One... Dear Reader, My Blog “ The Princess “ is nothing but simple scribblings of my wandering thoughts based on a story describing Panchali’s secret fascination towards the Star of Mahabharata – Karna ……Infact I read that few months back in a weekly.As per them, it was described in Puranamanjari.I don’t know whether i...  more...
 Manasee Mishra | 11:58 | 23/Jul/2007
Friends: (216)  | City: Lucknow  | Interests: Nature,Moovies,Th...
Find... Who R You !
Hi frnz...Here'z somethin 4 u , which describes   -  "WAT SORT OF PERSONALITY DO YE POSSESS..."  1.)- Me First     AN EGOISTUr attitude to life is simple, direct, and aboveboard - every decision u make is based on the answer to one question : "What's in it for me?" If ur selfishness, greed, and ruthless desire for self-advancement hurt other ppl, t...  more...
 ! | 17:52 | 22/Jun/2007
Friends: (33)  | City: Pune  | Interests: Music, Driving, P...
Long time no posts
Hello Friends, I would first like to thank you all for reminding me "Long time no post". That's true, and I sincerely apologise for not posting and appreciate that you all visit my homepage inspite of no new posts. I dont have anything to post as of now,  and even now as I write this, I am thinking of what to post, with no subject coming to my mind...  more...
 manu sankar | 10:43 | 9/Aug/2006
Friends: (3)  | City: Cochin  | Interests: reading chatting ...
movies
hi last day i saw a movie named KEERTHICHAKRA starring mohanlal n jeeva in major roles.................. its a gr8 movie. it speaks of the lives of the commandos in kashmir.its a new whiff of air in mollywood which offlate was drenched in sops,fueds n slapsticks.as a newcomer major ravi has done a faboulous job.lets expect he carries it on n on wit...  more...
 atul gandhi | 21:35 | 16/Sep/2006
Friends: (215)  | City: Kolhapur  | Interests: investment,travel...
RISHTE
Treat life as Sea, your heart as Shore, and your friends as Waves. It never matters how many waves are there, what matters is which Wave touches the Shore....  more...
 subhash chandra | 19:28 | 20/Mar/2007
Friends: (42)  | City: Patna  | Interests: Imagination
Review GOD
What do U say .... I feel that the concept of God be revied in the changed milew when it produces more confusion than conviction.  more...
 vivek jain | 13:06 | 21/Jul/2007
Friends: (97)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: sports,travel,pol...
Freindship and Faith
The miracle that costed 1 dollar and 11 cents> >> >> >    A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly  jar> >from its hiding place in the closet.> >> >      She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully.> >Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes.> >> >      Carefully placi...  more...
 Anuj Goyal | 12:12 | 28/Jun/2007
Friends: (8)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: music,friends,Tra...
Kaise Kahoon
dil mein ek baat hai par kaise kahoon,zubaan par alfaaz hai par kaise kahoon,dard bahut hai sine mein karne ke liye byaan,par unke dard ka ehsaas hai kaise kahoon,Chupa rakhi thi aansoon ki ye nadiyan,unme kya alfaz hai kaise kahoon,chahte hain sabkuch dena unhe,par hum hain khaali haath ye kaise kahoon,unki ek jhalak ki chah mein kaise beete hainy...  more...
 vikas shriva... | 14:14 | 15/Feb/2007
Friends: (13)  | City: bhind  | Interests: make true friends...
AADMI
MOHABBAT ME DIKHAVE KI DOSTI NA MILA, GALE NAHI MILTA TO HATH BHI NA MILA. GHARON PE NAAM THE NAAM KE SATH OHDE THE, BAHUT TALASH KIYA PAR MUJHE AADMI NA MILA. TAMAM RISHTE GHAR PE CHHOD KAR AA GAYA, PHIR RASTE ME MUJHE KOI AJNABI NA MILA. KHUDA TERI ITNI BADI KAYNAAT ME, MAINE EK SHAKHS MANGA THA WOH BHI MUJHE NA MILA.  more...
 gurudutt nag... | 22:28 | 16/Feb/2007
Friends: (3)  | City: Hyderabad  | Interests: Music,Videos spor...
Marathon
It was 21st Jan 2007, the Marathon day at Mumbai. I had joined as participant in the 6.5 KM Dream run. When the race started, a see of Humanity moving, it was more of a walk than a run. But soon enough the field became clear and I was running along with others. And to my surprise she was a beautiful girl, full of pep and lot of energy and that beau...  more...
 rajesh yadav | 09:59 | 16/Aug/2006
Friends: (22)  | Interests: Book reading,poet...
Womanhood.1
Few days back I was reading an article in a magazine about the State of affairs of woman in India.Its disheartening to know that what all woman has to do make the family stay together with a bonding.I always ponder over this issue why only a woman has to go through that kind of sacrifice why not men also.In recent past we have heard about a very fe...  more...
 ruby aa | 19:47 | 30/Jul/2006
Friends: (2)  | City: Bangalore  | Interests: Reading
University Grants Commission
Recently, the University Grants Commission has relaxed the basic qualification lecturers. Now, those with a Ph.d degree, are exempted from appearing for the National Eligibility Test (NET). This exemption from NET should be derided due to several reasons. For one, the introductory pay scale for lecturers is between Rs 8,000-Rs 13,500, which is equa...  more...
 rajiv nath | 14:04 | 6/Aug/2006
Friends: (1)  | City: trivandrum  | Interests: looking for grils...
hello,i m 40/m/looking for fun..any one interested mail me  more...
 har wil | 17:19 | 6/Aug/2006
Friends: (5)  | City: Chandigarh  | Interests: Listening Music,c...
My Posts
True Light and Life's Winding RoadsThe True LightWhen you look into life,You don't see what's inside;For you look with your eyesAnd not with your heart.If you want to know the truth,Then you have to close your eyes;And open your heartTo see the true light.Don't try to changeWhat was really there,Just because what you sawBrought you only despair.The...  more...
 seeniraj siv... | 20:59 | 3/Dec/2007
Friends: (67)  | City: Tuticorin-628005  | Interests: www.shivamaha.com
மூச்சĬ...
குசேலĪ 5;ாக இருந்Ī 0;ாலும் குபேரĪ 5;ாக இருந்Ī 0;ாலும் சந்தோī 9;மாக வா&#...  more...
 N Karthik | 09:38 | 12/May/2007
Friends: (8)  | City: Chennai  | Interests: Writing, painting
Commemorating the first war of Indian In...
While not getting into the facts and background of the 1857 revolt (a.k.a The 1st war of Indian Independence).....Would like to just share some thoughts on the recently concluded fanfare commemorating the event in New Delhi....What a great cultural extravaganza to commemorate the glorious event that many feel was the catalyst behind the Indian Inde...  more...
 Subrahmanyam... | 10:11 | 26/Sep/2007
Friends: (199)  | City: Hyderabad  | Interests: books, music, pai...
Ram Setu?
I was watching closely the different arguments and discussions aboutthe 'RAMSETU" in papers and people reactions about it. Yes it is reallyinteresting to know who built it. Was it Vanara sena or was it anatural formation.Yes I too felt bad when a question was raised about the 'astitva' ofSri Rama. We are from our childhood told about his great deed...  more...
 nishant dudha | 23:10 | 31/Aug/2006
Friends: (1)  | Interests: Travel, Debates, ...
Men, Women and Imaginations
Well, yesterday a friend of mine sent me an SMS. It read, "A great philosopher once said that when Men sleep with 'Sex on their Mind', they wake up with the 'Solution' in hand.I as any heavy duty messager will do immediately broadcast it adding the following line to those of the Female gender - "wonder what applies to Women then" .Well I just got o...  more...
 nafissur rahman | 16:55 | 20/Jul/2006
Friends: (7)  | City: mangalore  | Interests: Surfing Managemen...
test blog  more...
 Abhishek Dube | 16:27 | 5/Aug/2006
Friends: (1)  | Interests: music, movies, ev...
Khan Market
(while in 11th)Khan Market.Let me tell you what it is.... Khan Market is a place where you will find most of our school children hanging out. Everybody from class 6 to class 12 is seen there, especially when there is a stayback or something.It has a variety of restaurants like McDonald's, Khan Chacha(a wonderful place to eat kababs and rolls) , Big...  more...
 Priya | 19:32 | 23/Jul/2007
Friends: (326)  | City: Navi Mumbai  | Interests: christian mysticism
Law protecting the Elderly
A society is known by the way it treats the helpless. As I glanced through today's edition of the Hindustan Times, this piece of news caught my attention. In the monsoon session of the Parliament there are plans to introduce a Bill protecting the rights of the Elderly. Wow! I am sure a much awaited Bill. The law would be applicable throughout the c...  more...
 janus janus | 18:03 | 13/Dec/2007
Friends: (259)  | City: Mumbai(Bombay)  | Interests: Music, cooking, t...
Bees saal baad
I think it’s the time for re-runs in my life! Last year I embarked on a road trip down south and visited places that I had not been to for 20-odd years. And in a week’s time, I will be visiting another country which I last saw 20years ago. A lot has changed in India in the meantime, and in life. I wonder what kind of changes have happened in a coun...  more...
 Jeff vikash | 06:25 | 8/Sep/2006
Friends: (118)  | City: Madurai  | Interests: chatting ..
LOVE
               LOVE.. love is commonly contrasted with hate.As it s a less sexual and more more pure form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust.Love usually refers to interpersonel love,an EXPERIENCE felt by one person for another person.                                  TRUE LOVE is a love without condition,motive or attach...  more...
 vineet vin | 23:50 | 22/Nov/2005
Friends: (1)  | City: Mumbai(Bombay)  | Interests: music, watching m...
Getting started
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 amit kumar | 20:35 | 30/Jul/2006
Friends: (1)  | City: Raipur  | Interests: CRICKET , MAKING ...
A Mananger's Perception
 A MANAGER’S  PERCEPTION              CASE How A  Bank succeed to take over cash credit / Term loan accountof an agricultural based SME from our branch. Brief History          An Agriculture produce (say X) Mill was enjoying   cash credit   and Term loan facilities with our Branch of Rs.2.00 crores (say) at the rate of 11.25% per annum. The promote...  more...
 Mithun Balan | 10:08 | 5/Aug/2006
Friends: (8)  | City: Cochin  | Interests: chatting, eating,...
Generation X
Where r we going to. Think its far time the power is changed to younger hands. Living in a state where the CM is 86 already i feel so. Why r the younger generation less interested in politics. Just b'coz its been captured by the ols guys who refuse to move. people say youngsters r less intersted in the country developments when the reality is that ...  more...
 Abhiram Gowrav | 17:17 | 23/Sep/2006
Friends: (54)  | City: Nagpur  | Interests: hmm.......
Can anyone get me an MP3 of this song?? ...
This is my all time favorite song.. and of course the movie tooArtist: The Wonders LyricsSong: That Thing You Do! You,Doin' that thing you do,Breaking my heart into a million pieces,Like you always doAnd you,Don't mean to be cruel,You never even knew about the heartache,I've been going throughWell I try and try to forget you girl,But it's just so h...  more...
 Me 2 | 20:06 | 20/Aug/2006
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